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Loneliness is an emotional state where people experience a disconnection from people around them as well as a deep feeling of emptiness. This is not to be confused with being alone. Being alone doesn’t equate to being lonely because sometimes it is good for individuals to be alone and refresh, recuperate and rediscover part of their lives.

There are a number of ways to deal with loneliness:

- Constantly remind yourself that the feeling of loneliness is temporary and you will get over it in time.
- Spending time alone will help you examine yourself more closely. However, make an effort to talk to someone new. It is hard, but he first step is usually the hardest and most necessary.
- Put yourself in new situations where you will meet people. Engage in activities in which you have genuine interest. Meet with people of similar interest.
- Learn a new skill. Success in achieving something will definitely make you feel good about yourself.
- Stop listening to sad songs.
- Open yourself to others first. You cannot expect people to share their troubles with a closed person.
- Do not judge new people on the basis of past relationships. Try to see each person you meet from a new perspective instead of bring judgmental.
- Don’t just seek romantic relationships. Platonic relationships can be extremely satisfactory.
- If you are having long term depression, it is not wrong to seek medical advice. See a counselor and talk in privacy.

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Breaking up is a time when there are many emotions going on - there are so many feelings that you may be hiding deep inside and you are searching for an effective way to release them. When this is the case, you may want to find a hobby to fill your hours. Take an art class, or learn how to do pottery. Take up a hobby that gets you back into interacting with others, for example dance lessons. Also, you can learn how to write. You can write a story about your life and describe what you are going through. Write down all the things that you would normally keep to yourself. Writing a journal is something that you can use to comfort your feelings when you are embarrassed to do so any other way. But make sure you don’t isolate yourself. You need to be around people and your friends should be the key to finding yourself after your break up. Share your feelings - you should be with individuals who love you. Remember, it is hard getting over a relationship, but breaking up can sometimes be a blessing.

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